Discreet Crush Review

Overview of DiscreetCrush

DiscreetCrush.com is an adult dating site. The profiles seem to be real, the pics are explicit, and the site is active and busy. Sign-up is free and only takes a few steps, but the catch is that viewing and interacting with other Premium Members requires a paid membership. There are options for cheaper memberships if you sign up for more than one month, but I think the one-month option is expensive, especially for the quality of the site.

Features of Discreet Crush

Dashboard is where you’ll see the features you’ll use all the time.

Search: Search members by age, location, online status, and availability of photos.

Messages: Access and send messages here.

Play: View and “Heart” member photos.

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Live Cams: Affiliate link for live cams, live sex, and video chat. This tab will open another browser window.

Sexy Games Tab: This is another link to an affiliate for online sex and games.

How to Search and View ProfilesPut in the location and age you prefer and if you want someone with photos or who is Online Now. This site is fairly active, and I see many new member profiles daily. Many of the profiles that are shown in search are premium members, so you can’t interact without paying. The picture previews are large, so it’s easy to see the other members without having to click on each image, which is a decent feature if you’re using the site to browse pics without joining.

Standard & Premium Memberships

Discreetcrush.com offers a free membership that lets you browse the site and profiles. If you want to use the features that make this site worthwhile, you need to pay for a membership. I probably find the payment options to be the best feature of this site. You can use a credit card or debit card, major brand gift cards (trade in retail/entertainment gift cards) or use PaySafe. This is great for members looking for total privacy. For me, the ability to use another payment method besides a credit card is a huge plus. The gift card option is good, especially if you have some taking up space in your wallet already. PaySafe is perfect for people who don’t want to leave any trail that they were on an adult dating site.

Membership Options:

  • Monthly Recurring: $29.95 /month (billed monthly)
  • 3-Month Membership: $19.98/month (3 months billed at sign-up)
  • 6-Month Membership: $16.66/month (6 months billed at sign-up)

Included in Premium Membership:

  • Send and receive unlimited messages
  • Access to live cams
  • Full access to all profiles, including other Premium members
  • FREE XXX Videos
  • Send unlimited likes to other members
  • Priority listing on the site so you get seen by other members
  • Priority support
  • Several discreet payment options

Help and Support

It’s easy to access the support and contact the site with problems. Click on Help at the very bottom of the screen, and it will take you to a FAQ page with the answers to common questions. If you can’t find the answer, you can contact support by clicking on the button.

If you do contact support for help with your account or site experience, they will ask for info to verify your identity. This protects you so that no one can contact them to try and access your profile, but not everyone wants to give their info out to dating sites.


DiscreetCrush.com is not my favorite dating site. The positives are that the site is very active, there are always lots of new members, and that payment is discreet. However, I don’t like that you must pay for membership to interact with most of the members, and I don’t think the quality is as good as other sites. Some of it feels glitchy or spammy. This is a good site for a fast hookup but be prepared to pay for the service if you want to interact with anyone. Also, be aware you will be taken to other sites for some of the features advertised. Not all sites are worth a monthly payment, and this one has me on the fence. If you are only after a fast hookup with no paper trail, this site is probably a good fit. If you care about quality or get frustrated easily by tech issues, skip this one.